It has been a long few weeks since I last posted. My oldest son,who was thirty nine, died unexpectedly in early November and I have been in the United States taking care of all those things that need taking care of before saying a final goodbye. What I found the hardest was just the sheer exhaustion that I felt while still having to make all the necessary arrangements. My son Jordan and I spent hours and hours trying to tie up all the loose ends that have to be taken care of when life ends.
I am back home in Puerto Viejo now and am just recovering and taking it easy. There is no better place to heal and every day gets a bit less painful. I have found that people are so kind and thoughtful, both here in Costa Rica and back in the United States. I am so very lucky to have the family and friends that I have. They make times like this much easier to bear. Thanks to you all.
Costa Rica Dog Lover 
Jana,
We are so so sorry to hear about the death of your son. Our deepest sympathies go out to you and Tom. You are in our thoughts as you pass through the healing process of this terrible loss. Peace and love to you both.
Thanks so much Casey. Your kind words and thoughts are very helpful.
Jana
Jana,
I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Denice
Thanks so much Denice.